Question of the century: what in the world goes through the minds of men? (seriously will pay major $$$ if someone can decipher my DaVinci code level text messages)
This is a question that will probably never be answered. While this may be a vast generalization of only the boys that I have encountered, I frequently overhear this comment.
“Nice guys really do finish last. I’m over being nice, girls only like assholes anyway.”
For the love of God, PLEASE do not turn into that guy at the bar that pulls you away at midnight just go home with them. I understand that it may be considered too much to pick a girl up (flowers in tow) and bring her to a nice dinner. All I am asking is for a timely text message response and a coffee date once in a while.
When did it become a huge deal if a guy took a girl on a date??? I don’t know about you, but when my friends get asked on a real date (it’s rare) everyone, including me, freaks out. Oh yeah, that’s because taking a girl to a fraternity function has become of norm of getting to know someone and the primary way of showing interest. Burnettes vodka + themed costumes + a basement/another shitty, unkept venue; ~very romantic~